1. No one who is just separated.
2. Shows no interest in my past.
3. Does not self-disclose. Has no discernible history of his own.
4. Has a history of short-term relationships.
5. Has a poor relationship with his family and no explanation for it, no evidence of work.
6. Inconsistencies and broken promises
7. Friends who I dislike: liars, cheaters, etc.
8. Lots of break-ups over the same issues.
9. Says he likes something but never does it (eg. the Ex, who told me he loved camping but owned no camping gear and never went camping)
10. Judgmentalism
11. Selfishness & self-centredness
12. Excessive bragging
13. Too much disclosure, too early on
14. No talk about feelings
15. Does not make time for me.
16. Is very affectionate and complimentary to start, and then stops
17. Volatile and high-conflict relationship with his ex, especially if he blames it all on her.
18. History of relationships with crazy people. Look at the common denominator.
19. All of their exes reported to be devastated and broken-hearted after break-up and has no clue why.
20. Very different politics from mine and inability to refrain from evangelizing.
21. Too many promises and too much commitment too soon.
22. Very unstable finances.
